Game over
We've been breaking up for longer than we've been dating. But I think it's finally over. We met in November, broke up right before Christmas, got back together in mid-January, broke up in late January, got back together before Valentine's Day, and it goes on. I was always the one to break with him, but only because of things he did. He would promise to come visit and then get drunk with his Mexican co-workers who buy him tequila and beer. He would promise to come visit and then not come and I would find out from his mother that he went back to school to go to a fraternity function. Then I would get a text that he's fallen for another girl who is perfect and later that night would text, "I'm horny!" Things like that, bullshit things that shouldn't have happened. We would break up over things like that and I would grow weak. I'm a sucker for cuddling with him, I really am. It's my weak spot, the cuddling, and he knows it. But it's finally over. I've said that before, but I secretly didn't want it all to end. I'm finally done.
The last 10 texts I've received:
you suck! 2:18pm 4/21
cause i was gonna come c u...but you shot that down 2:32pm 4/21
still dont want me 2 come back sunday? 3:43pm 4/22
youre loss! 9:27pm 4/22
you sure you dont want me 2 come sunday? 2:07am 4/23
pretty please...we dont have to have sex...we can just make out and cuddle and ill go down on you! 2:17am 4/23
and dont go 2 work in georgia! 2:24am 4/23
im ready 2 be nice! 2:35am 4/23
please 2:58am 4/23
whats the verdict? 10:07pm 4/23
I replied, "No."
posted by :) @ 4:49 PM
6 Comments:
wow, you can see he's really trying to get you to cave. stand your ground! seems like you have it handled so far, so keep it up. : ]
Sorry to hear about your breakup but you have been talking about it for a while. So if it is the right thing to do, stand your ground. You're a great gal, I'm sure you will find someone who is worthy of you soon enough. Take care! :)
I can totally understand having a weakness for cuddling, and that clouding your judgement. I have a more-than-passing familiarity with that myself. It seems like you've reached the point where the stress and pain of dealing with him are no longer offset by the brief pleasure of cuddling.
Stay you ground. You can, and will, do better.
I'm a sometime reader of your blog...and older. Do you really communicate via text messaging with you boyfriend that often ? Glad they hadn't come up with that when I was dating, I think it takes lots of the brains, and interest, out of communicating and flirting.
I can see using it with your clients -- I use it for work, but romance/dating ? Would get old for me quickly.
It got old very quickly for me as well. I never understood why he couldn't just call. SO annoying.
why Dont you post your pics...?
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