Not all that pathetic

Anonymous said...
Why do men call you at all? Are your clients all completely hopeless losers? Even as depressing as casual sex is, at least it's between two people who desire each other. Paying for it is pathetic.
2:52 PM

Not really. I've seen more hot men than I ever expected to see doing this. The guy I saw on Tuesday I probably might have picked up in a bar. He was a former frat boy who was in town on business selling agricultural products or something and put the hotel room on expenses. A lot of them are like that, about half are guys who travel for business and stop in town to see me in the afternoon. I saw an extremely horny guy who was younger than me a couple Sundays ago; he'd tried to pick up girls in the bars over the weekend unsuccessfully (probably because girls are turned off by a sense of desperation in a guy who really wants to get laid) and was so horny that he couldn't concentrate on studying. I'm typing this in the library. Amusingly, he is sitting at a nearby table. He didn't say hi, but he might not have recognized me with my hair up, glasses on, and no makeup.

Paying for it isn't really all that pathetic. There are lots of reasons guys might pay for sex. It's easier and sometimes even cheaper. You don't have to take me out to dinner and pay lots of attention to me and go on a bunch of dates before we have sex.. unless you want to and just don't want relationship demands or emotional baggage. You get horny, make an appointment, and fuck. That's all there is to it. You don't have to try to pick me up in a bar and impress me or buy me drinks.

Some guys email me, "Hey what's up gurl I don't pay for sex LOL but let's meet up anyway and have some fun LOL I am really good in bed and i am horny all the time and need some satisfaction and I will show you a good time LOL but I don't pay for sex LOL so will you have sex with me? i am so horny and want to have sex but cant LOL okay bye"
If you don't pay for sex and it's so easy for you to get laid then go get laid!! And stop bothering me to get me to sleep with you for free! Asshole! Ugh. Although.. I did sleep with one student for free because he was hot. I gave him mono. OOPS! I met up with him on a Wednesday and then didn't figure out I had mono until Friday. I had huge goiters on my neck and didn't know what they were. I was then out of work for over a month.

A lot of guys are married and a) like variety, or b) their wives can't or won't have sex with them as often as they'd like. Women don't have the option of seeing a male escort because they either don't tend to realize that it's an option or they have a certain taste in men that they believe isn't the male escort "type" and instead they choose to have an affair.

Women have a more defined standard of beauty and (IMHO) can easily fake it, whereas men can really vary and don't have the option of wearing "very sexy" makeup and clothing.
I say this because guys will always tell me that they think one or another of my friends is hot and I don't think she's pretty at all; she just goes tanning a lot, bleaches her hair, wears a lot of makeup, and dresses like a sorority girl. If Paris Hilton didn't have bleached hair or really tan skin, dressed like a normal person, and hadn't had her nose fixed, I don't believe she would be considered as hot as she is now.

Anyway, I guess the point that I'm trying to make is that guys who see me are sometimes "losers" I'd never date, but sometimes they aren't at all. I saw a therapist with a hot body a couple weeks ago; he had a long-term girlfriend and was satisfied with their emotional relationship but not with their sexual relationship for an unknown reason. I try not to explicitly ask why clients see me (although I might edge toward the topic); I don't want to push them into an embarrassing answer or make them feel uncomfortable by revealing part of their personal self.

I gotta go, though. Quantum physics awaits. The professor told me (she has a Chinese accent), "You gonna fail! You not prepared for this exam! I don't know how to grade you when you've missed so much [from being sick in February]! Your homework grade is terrible. The test will be haaaard. You know, the test will be very haaaard. I don't think you will pass! I think you gonna fail. Go to dean and ask to withdraw." THANKS FOR THE EGO BOOST, PROFESSOR.